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Is Your Man Cheating?

If you are reading this, then you are at the least curious to know if it's possible that just maybe the man you love is cheating on you. In this article I will discuss the tell-tale signs of a man who is cheating. The funny thing about wanting to know is that most women who suspect their man of infidelity are usually right - I have found that a woman's intuition is usually dead on. Every time I was accused of cheating in my relationships they were correct.

All a man has to do is just plant a seed of doubt in her mind to get her going. We make her feel like it's her - that she is being paranoid for no reason. We say things like "I love you, I would never do that." "How can you think such a thing?" Or, we get very defensive and mad, this technique is to show you how upset we are that you would even think that low of us! Most times women just put it away until the next incident, and believe me there will be a next - it's just a matter of time.

This is the way a man thinks unless you catch us in the "down stroke" it never happened, it wasn't me! Every man who cheats knows this code, it's "the code of denial" and it simply goes like this. "I didn't do it" "It was not me." You see, we don't care how much you "think" you may know, unless you have it on video… It was not me, and even if you have it on video… "That's not me ,clearly you can tell that it's not my back!" We know that you don't want it to be true, that you don't want your man to be a cheating asshole that can't be trusted. So this gives us an advantage because you will take any bullshit excuse we dish out, and some of it is absolute bullshit! Example: "I was too drunk to drive home so I crashed a Tom's house." Come on ladies, please stop and think! If I was able to get my ass to Tom's house… hello!! This excuse is used when we need to stay out all night because what ever we are chasing needs dedicated time to close. This is what happens… We don't get out of the house until 8pm; we take her out to dinner that takes what 2-3 hours, now it's 11pm. Then we have to take her to the club, by the time that's done it's what? 3am. We still have not "hit it yet", and she is primed, I mean ready to go - we can go home now! We clearly have to make a decision & fast! So we check our phone to see if the wife has called, now if she has called -how many times is the next question. If she has been calling non-stop for the past 3 hours this is a problem. This is when we do a complete shut off because we are setting you up for another lame ass excuse. "My battery died." Mission complete, we know that you will be upset for a while, but we also know that you don't have enough evidence to convict! So you will get over it, after all, you wouldn't want me to drive all the way home drunk would you? That would be too dangerous. The next morning, we show up saying "I missed your calls because… "it was so loud I didn't hear the phone then my battery died." Poor us.

Okay ladies, here are some of the major signs:

1. We start to work more hours… This one always works because "we are working more hours for you so you can have all those nice things." What we are really doing is spending time with someone else. This one is very easy to bust ladies, the on only thing you have to do is check his pay against the amount of new hours he's working and if the numbers don't add up you got him.

2. Your sex life takes a dive and he's just not that into you anymore. Why does this happen? Because we have a new toy that's exciting and shiny - it's like having a new car right off the lot, and the old one just isn't that interesting anymore, but we know we have to go out and start it every once and awhile.

3. A change in his physical appearance - This happens because we want to look good for our new toy. We get new clothes and really start to pay more attention to our appearance. If it's an older gentleman it's not uncommon for him to start to dress younger or more hip especially if he is with a younger woman. She is making him feel young!!

4. We become defensive when questioned especially about our "whereabouts." We do not like this at all because we find this line of questioning very uncomfortable. You are forcing us to lie. This is when we will normally deploy a reversal technique, and tell you that you are being "insecure, and possessive." Then we look you dead in the eyes and ask with our most concerned and sincere face "Don't you trust me?" This will normally stop this uncomfortable line of question for a little while.

5. The dreaded and highly guarded cell phone. What can I say this is a very sensitive subject for mostly all cheaters, it's both a blessing and a curse a blessing because it give us real time access to our new toy, a sexy text here and there - you know, to keep things spicy. It allows us to make booty call arrangements right from our blackberries, maybe they should call them "bootyberries" we can manage our "other women" right from our palms. Modern technology you got to love it! Now, the Curse is that it's so much work to guard it! The bootyberry is like a ticking time bomb that could explode in your face killing you at anytime! You can not leave it sitting around, this thing must be in your possession at all times - we even take it to the bath room! Here is a trick ladies, pretend that you have left your phone somewhere, and you need to use his phone to make an urgent call. When he gives it to you take it and leave the room to make this call, and just watch his expression, it will tell you all you need to know! He's trying to play it cool, but he's thinking "OMG, she has my bootyberry and she leaving with it - NOOOOOOOOO!!!"

6. Changes in his spending habits - Of course there is going to be a change in our spending habits; we have a new girlfriend we have to wine and dine. Do you think cheating is free!! When it comes to this you have two types, the "smart spender" who only uses cash to take his toy around. This guy will never use a ATM or credit card, he fears the paper trail will came back to haunt him. You can nail this guy too by simply checking his ATM withdrawals. The other is the "dummy spender," this guy not only uses his credit cards, but his joint ATM card as well! Like Whitney said "if you & the fellas went out to eat, how come only two of you had dinner - on your credit card receipt?" Yeah I know that's not the way it went but you get the point right?

Well, I think that's enough sharing for now. I think writing this article will get my "man card" taken. If this is what entails being a man, I want know part of it. Don't get me wrong, I stand guilty of all these things and much more, but I no longer do these things. It's easy to cheat, anyone can do that, but it takes a real man to stick to his commitments, and be faithful. Just want you ladies to stop allowing men to pull the wool over your eyes - follow your gut instinct, you have that intuition thing for a reason.

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-Josh

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Personal Growth and Sacrifice

I was chatting with a really close friend of mine recently and he asked me "where is so and so? And why is it that I never really see you with the same acquaintances for too long?" As I thought about his question, I immediately began to meander through the Rolodex of my memory to figure out why it is that I frequently disassociate myself from certain individuals.

Although I use to think that disconnecting myself from people was a character flaw - something I needed to work on, I continued to do it because the fact of the matter was that I never really missed them. In retrospect, as I sit here today looking at the journey of my life thus far, I know that I was doing exactly what I needed to do for my self growth. Life forced me to sacrifice plenty of acquaintances in order to get to the next level. Had I not followed my intuition and omitted certain individuals, I truly believe that I would still be stagnant and sitting exactly where they are.

In this journey called life, there are, and will always be people who you will simply have to leave behind or omit if you plan on succeeding; they are simply not equipped to be on your journey - it's that simple. We are very much like those whom we closely associate ourselves with whether we recognize it or not. There was an old saying that summed it up best, "Tell me who your closest friends and I'll tell you who you are" (or something like that.)

When you begin to take a look at the people in your life, you may discover that their mere presence has been impeding your progress, you must be prepared emotionally because it may very well be a best friend, sibling or other relative that has to go. This may be difficult, but if they are a hindrance in any manner, disassociating yourself is simply a formality that you "must" do if you are serious about getting to where you want to be. This doesn't mean that you don't still love them or that you shouldn't keep in touch periodically to see how they are, it simply means that you have out grown them and therefore you must move on. Now, if you are planning on trying to "take" these people with you, then you may as well plan on being exactly where you are at today.

It is virtually impossible to grow beyond your current situation if you are surrounded with people who lack motivation, are under educated or have no desire to do anything other than live pay check to pay check, etc. They are more than happy to help you enjoy the fruits of your labor and mooch off of your hard work and good fortune. It is up to you to take advantage of any opportunity you may have to learn and develop. Don't ever be satisfied with being "the big fish in a small pond." Associate yourself with people who are at the level in which you are aiming to achieve. The harsh reality is that life will force you to make certain changes for your own benefit, and sometimes these choices will mean that someone closest to you may get left behind, but this form of sacrifice may be the key to your success!

Most people who enter your life are only meant to be there for a reason - their purpose is to teach you something. Some people will be there for a season - their purpose is to help you grow and expand your horizons. Very few people will be there for a lifetime - this form of friendship is the rarest to acquire, it's meant to be cherished. The choice is yours, so choose wisely. Remember, you only have one life to live, so make every moment count!

-Juicy

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I Am Not Super Woman

Most recently I have encountered quite a few women who revealed to me that they have been diagnosed with or are battling some form of cancer. Some of them are treatable, and expected to beat the odds and many others are not so fortunate. You never really know what to say when you receive this type of news. My heart aches for these women and I always pray for each and every one of them to beat this monster that's wrecking havoc on far too many. Hearing the stories of these women has me pondering on this "moment" called life, forcing me to realize exactly how fleeting our moments here truly are. Many of us wear more hats than we realize; of which we do not choose. We work tirelessly, day after day, month after month, annually and continually to progress to the "next level" in life; whatever that may be. Working ourselves tirelessly so we can earn more, which enables us to buy more, which then compels us to create more desires, which we then have to pay for, thereby causing us to need to work more and so on, and so on… And in the midst of it all, we are expected to cook, clean and everything in between! And, if we're fortunate enough, just maybe we'll be able to take an annual vacation - just maybe.

But I'm wondering, how many of us ever stop to actually take a moment to ENJOY our lives? I mean to truly savor every waking moment. There are only 24 hours in each day, how much of it do we actually expend doing something nice for ourselves? I understand that work is an absolute necessity (for most of us anyway.) But what about ALL those other ohhh so precious aspects of life that we tend to simply take for granted? Many of us never really have the opportunity to savor family time, and as parents we often don't even recognize our children's growth or the lack thereof, because after the hustle, bustle and grind of the week is through with us, we're simply too damn tired to pay attention. How many of us remember the last time we took notice of things as simple as a butterfly, the chirping of birds, the whispering of the night wind or the celestial sights over head. I gather to say not too many; I'm even willing to place a wager on it.

I too was once guilty of not knowing how to "truly enjoy" my life and the fruits of my labor because like the lives of so many, mine too was filled to capacity and spewing over with handling my busy*ass*ness and "doing" for others. So much so, that it had gotten to the point where I had the audacity to feel guilty for taking time or doing anything solely for myself! - Knowing full well that I was far too exhausted or stressed to move another muscle. But, I would somehow manage to come through for anyone else - except myself, if it was something specifically for me, I would always put it off until… translation - I would never get to it. Well, I don't know about you but I'm in the process of recovering from what I have personally self diagnosed myself as having- and termed: "Ms. Busy-as-hell-aholic" "Hello, my name is J. Jones and I am a busy-as-hell-aholic" - Now, go ahead, say "Hello" - I know I'm NOT the only member attending this meeting, there are millions just like me.

The buck stops here! Although I am capable of performing incredible feats of heroic nature, bringing home the bacon - frying it up in a pan, while simultaneously taking care of any, every & all things - for each, every & all in need… (and making it look damn easy I might add) No, I am NOT superwoman!!! So, Alicia keys - shut it up! I am simply a woman who has allowed life, business, the needs of others, and the pursuit of accomplishments to place entirely too much sh!% on my plate. Well, I don't know about you, but I am a work in progress when it comes to tackling this "Relax and take care of ME" obstacle. If you too are guilty (and you know who you are,) join me in repeating OUR new daily Mantra…

"I will take time for myself on a daily basis.

I will ONLY do what I can, as long as it doesn't impede upon what I want to do for MYSELF.

I will learn to appreciate all that life presents me with and TRULY enjoy the fruits of my labor.

I will not allow anyone to impede upon my "ME" time."

Now, go and do something relaxing specifically for YOURSELF! - You have definitely earned it.

-juicy
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When A Man Loves A Woman

A lady friend of mine, let's call her Amy, asked me a question thee otheer day. When I first heard thee question it seemed like a simple one, until I went to open my mouthe to give her an answer. Then suddenly I realized theat theis question was not so simple, and theat thee answer would have to be relative to thee individual person and his or her experiences. "How can you tell if a man loves you?" Seems simple enough right? I must explain a few theings about Amy first so theat you can understand why I was so stumped by her question. Amy is a theirty-eight year old motheer of four, her children range in ages from 5-14 years old and she's a well educated professional in corporate America.

Amy's husband, let's call him Mike happens to be a corporate attorney who by all appearances is a great catch. Mike is one of thee best fatheers I have ever met and over all he really is a great guy. Mike is a good provider theat works very hard to give his family thee theings theat theey desire. Before we go any furtheer I theink it's only right if I disclose to you theat Mike is my best friend. Mike and I went to high school and college togetheer so I have known Mike a very long time. In our younger days we did what boys do, we played thee game and took no prisoners - women were a sport and we left a long line of broken hearts in our wake. The funny theing is theat we bothe had our hearts broken quite a few times also. We were so young and naive back theen, as I theink back on theose days I have mixed emotions - I smile, I cringe and I feel embarrassed at thee same time I feel a bit cocky, but mostly I feel remorseful and sad.

I was withe Mike thee night he met Amy. It was thee first time I saw Mike at a loss for words, if you can imagine theis six foot five guy, two hundred and fifty pounds standing theere looking like some body's lost child. It was so funny; of course I laughed my ass off, and teased him accordingly. He pursued theis girl for monthes, flowers at her office every week, chocolate candy, hand written poems and notes. Meanwhile, thee whole time I was theinking- who is theis guy? What happened to Mike? The Mike I knew had a two week rule, he would take thee ladies out theree times in a two week period and if she wasn't "putting out" he ended it, and even if she did put out - he still ended it. One time while we were drinking I asked him thee logic behind his "two week theing." This was his answer: "if she does not put out withein thee two week period theen she is probably looking for some kind of relationship, and I don't want any part of theat shit." Then I asked, what if she does put out withein your two week time frame Mike? Mike leaned back into his chair as if contemplating mankind's greatest challenges, I remember theinking "theis is going to be really deep." Mike proceeded to lean forward as if he held thee secret on how to get theat pot of gold at thee end of a rainbow. Strangely enough I couldn't help but feel honored theat he would trust me withe theis information. He said "if she puts out on schedule, theen she's probably a tramp and who wants to seriously be withe a tramp?" Mike must have seen thee confused look on my face, as he smirked, he told me to just forget about it because I was too simple to understand thee mind of a master.

After 4 monthes Amy finally gave in and theey started dating, exactly one year later theey were engaged. Just theree monthes after thee engagement I found myself standing next to Mike in a packed church as his best man withe a hangover from hell, theinking about thee night before. Was I really standing next to thee same person from last night? Mike and I met a few friends in Vegas to give Mike a small bachelor party, you know, to show him what he was about to be giving up forever. I theought theat thee old Mike was gone because thee entire time he and Amy had been dating he had not even looked at anotheer woman. The first night Mike was on his best behavior, but last night his inner demons resurfaced. I tried to stop him, I told him what a good woman he had, I really tried hard because I like Amy, she's a sweet and wonderful woman, but theings happened theat were out of my control. There I was standing next to "Mike thee cheating groom". We talked on thee flight home I told him theat maybe he was not ready for such a commitment now, and theat he should probably give it some more time. Mike told me theat I was talking nonsense, theat what happened was notheing- just a last fling he had to get out of his system. Mike told me theat he loved Amy withe everytheing he was, she made him complete and no otheer woman had come close to making him feel theat way. I believed him when he said it, but I could not help feel a little sick and sad standing next to theis guy, my best friend, whom I know deep down inside is not capable of doing thee right theing. That was seventeen years ago and Mike has never stopped cheating on Amy. Mike had never gotten caught eitheer he was really good at it, he had his rules theat he followed you see. He called theem "Mike's golden rules to maintaining a happy wife theat leads to a happy home." I theink theere were about 10 rules but I can only remember a few.

1.

Maintain your relationship withe God (go to church every Sunday)
2.

Always handle your business first. You must be thee best provider.
3.

Be thee best fatheer
4.

Always treat your wife like your girl friend.
5.

Never get involved withe any one woman beyond two monthes. (theis was thee hit and run rule)

I was an unwilling participant in a lot of his philandering over thee years. I aided Mike many times in maintaining his cover. Mike's down fall came when he broke one of his very own rules. " Never get involved withe any woman for more thean two monthes" - his hit and run rule. He believed theat if you are involved withe any one woman for more thean two monthes, you would start to develop feelings for her and theis would lead to an affair. Out of all thee stupid theings theat Mike has come up withe, he was truly right about theis one; affairs always end one way - ugly!

The otheer woman knew all about his wife and kids. She told Mike theat she understood his situation and would never cause his home any harm. That was six years and two kids ago. It's true, she never caused his home any harm directly. I know theis sounds crazy right? Mike has had two families for thee last five years. He says theat he loves bothe women, theat theey provide very different theings for him. I think about theis sometimes and say what everyone else must be saying - Mike is a selfish ass. This is true, I feel theat I am no better thean he is for allowing myself to get pulled into his mess. I didn't get involved in a small way eitheer, I am god fatheer to bothe sets of kids. I have been to all thee birtheday parties and have met thee mistress' family.

You are probably wondering how Amy found out right? Well, last year Mike's assistant retired and he hires a new one. The old assistant knew all about his "two families," he said theat he was "breaking thee new one in on thee way theings are." Mike often utilized his assistant to handle his personal matters like buying gifts for his Kids Christmas and birthedays. The assistant had a list of thee kids and theeir birthedays, but had not been told theat theere were two mommies involved. So she sends a birtheday gift to Mike's house withe a card theat read "Happy 5the Birtheday Jr., I love you withe all my heart, love Daddy." It was an autographed baseball signed by Yankee great Derek Jeter to Mike Jr... There was one major problem here theough, Amy and Mike had no boys. This led Amy to hire a private investigator and one monthe later she was having a conversation in Mike's "otheer living room" withe his mistress and her lawyer, all waiting for Mike to walk therough thee door.

Up until theis point I had managed to claim theat I had know idea about any of theis and I was just as surprised as she was. I knew one day she would find out thee truthe and I would lose a really great friend. So theere you have it, a seemingly simple question made so complicated. I gave Amy an answer, not from my brain, but from my heart. I told her theat when a man truly loves a woman not only will you here thee words, but his actions will scream it. His first theought when he wakes up is of you, and he can not wait to fall asleep at night so he can open his eyes to you in thee morning. That his ultimate goal for his day is to come home to you. That he would ratheer hurt him self thean cause you any pain. When he looks at you, you know at theat moment theat your are thee only woman in thee world. When he smiles at you, you know theat his smile is yours and theat theere is know one who can make him smile exactly like theat. When a man truly loves a woman you will know and theere will be no questions if he does or not. Amy looked me straight in thee eyes and asked me "do you theink Mike ever loved me?" I wanted to look away so badly thee guilt was so theick in my theroat, I said I theink you know. I theink you have always known.

Mike calls her every day now begging for forgiveness asking for a second chance. He has since broken off thee relationship withe thee otheer woman, but maintains a relationships withe thee kids. My personal opinion on thee subject is theat if a man loves you he would not risk thee relationship for such foolishness. Anybody can cheat, but it takes a man to be true, to do thee right theing when theere is no one watching theat's what makes a man.

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Product Whore

I'M A PRODUCT WHORE!
There, I said it, now it's out and everyone knows it. I love Shopping. I have officially accepted my insatiable love affair with products. Which, by the way I have had ever since I was old enough to crawl. I can remember having a hobby of mixing hair products together in order to get my hair to behave. See, my mother didn't believe in relaxers at the time, she said I was entirely too young - me being innovative and precocious, I just had to do something, so I started mixing, concocting and wasting all of my mother's beauty cosmetics until I formulated the perfect products (perfumes, soaps, lotions, nail polish and hair junk.) Oddly enough they worked! I would use them on my friends, family and anyone who would allow me to experiment. From there, my hobby grew into a passion, then my passion grew into an obsession. Now, several years and later, here I am with a wealth of consumer knowledge and an astonishing collection of products, products, and more products. I LOVE THIS STUFF!
Nothings off limits, I gotta have it; any and all types of products including but not excluding: shampoos, conditioners, hair oils, hair mist, gloss, wax, tamers, fortifiers, hair vitamins, anti-frizz, setting lotions, hair potions, relaxers, texturizers, perms, liquids, mousse, creams… Now what good is knowing about the hair products if you don't know about the hair? My love affair with hair has led me to spend almost twenty years in the hair & beauty industry. Currently, hair extensions and hair weaves are my addictions of choice. I have the inside source on what types of hair are worth buying, which ones will ultimately end up in a birds nest and which ones will give you the best illusion for your buck.
My whorish (product) ways extend far beyond hair related items. I'm also in love with body, skincare, nails, cleaning and OTC's as well. Ahh, not quite finished yet, I certainly can't forget all those delicious perfumes, soaps, body oils, washes, lotions, loofah's and scrubs. Then there's the face powder, bronzers, mattefiers, lip sticks, eye shadows, mascaras, eye pencils, nail polish, hair clips and the one product I absolutely can not live with out - lip glass! I mean, a girl's gotta have shiny-pouty lips right? And last, but definitely not least, I absolutely adore hair appliances, I refuse to live with out them! When I get a new one I'm like a kid on Christmas morning! I know what's the best, worst and what every girl absolutely must have in her hair styling arsenal. Everything from dryers, to curlers, flat-irons (ceramic - Ionic -Tourmaline - PFTC)… You name it, I'll let you know if it's worth buying.
I have researched, experimented with and tried just about every type of product imaginable. Got a problem? Chances are I know of a product for it. Want to know about a product? Chances are I can tell you about it. If you want any advice of the beauty-product type, I'M YOUR CHIC. Can't help it, I was born for this stuff and I LOVE IT!
Since I have all of this useful information stored in my memory bank, and selfishness has never been a quality of mine, I've decided to share it with everyone. I'll be posting my "Product Whore Picks" along with professional recommendations and tips. If you have any questions or need advice feel free to leave it in the comments section and I'll reply to you as promptly as I possibly can.
Pssst, between you and I, shoes, purses, bangles, designer jeans and anything that blings? Gotta have it! Hey, at least I'm taking the first step towards recovery... Lol

J Housley
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A Temperamental Vagina Named Kitty

I have never been so sick and tired of anything in my life as I am with Kitty, she's so damn temperamental! Dictating almost every area of my existence. I literally can't do "anything without her getting all irritated. Don't swim. Don't wash with that detergent. I don't care if you've had a long hard week, I don't like bubble baths! I don't like oral sex either! Those jeans are too tight! I don't like that body wash! Those panties irritate me! I only like this soap… UGGG! Don't get me wrong, I'm the boss of me, I "can" do whatever "I" very well please, I don't have to listen to Kitty, I just have be prepared to pay the price for being disobedient, which is usually an uncomfortable yeast infection. I often find myself wondering: Who's the boss around here?
Just the other evening I came home from work exhausted, it took all I had to stay awake while driving. All I wanted to do was shower and hit the pillow; no dinner necessary. I immediately jumped into the shower, just as I was completely drenched in the warmth of the soothing water; I realized that I was out of Kitty's soap. I've been using the same bar soap since I was a toddler, that's how long she's been in control of my life! Just my luck, the soap is in the hall pantry and there is no way that I'm about to get out of this shower to get it. In an effort to simply get to sleep, "I" decided to make an executive decision, I'll quickly use some body wash on Kitty -real quick, wipe, rinse and she'll be just fine.
I swear, I was so exhausted I fell asleep before my head hit the pillow. Well, well, well wouldn't you know it, the next morning Kitty began her silently irritating complaints of feeling uncomfortable. I know she hasn't brewed up an infection that quickly! By mid afternoon I was using the toilet tissue to soothe the agonizing itch. Ahhhh, I swear that toilet tissue feels so damn good… You do pay the price later though when you need to tinkle. (You'll know exactly what I'm talking about too.) By the end of the evening, I had managed to set Kitty ablaze! I can't believe I'll have to use my last vacation day to schlep Kitty on over to the GYN to get some relief. It's a good thing my gynecologist and I are cool; otherwise I would have to wait three weeks for an opening.
I gather that I should know better right? I mean, I've only been dealing with Kitty's temperamental ways since - well, forever. All I want is to be in control of my body! I don't need my vagina dictating to me what she will and will not allow! I'M THE BOSS! I'M A GROWN WOMAN AND I MAKE THE DECISIONS AROUND… Uhh, got too go pick up Kitty's prescription NOW or there will be no sleep for me tonight.
J Housley

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Defending Tiger Woods

I really did not want to go here but after watching the reports coming in on this Tiger Woods Cheating thing I just can't help myself. I am not defending Tiger Woods actions far from it, what he did was wrong but… what he did was and should not have been a surprise. I mean really ladies what do you expect if you choose to get associated with someone that is a pro athlete, a star or someone in the lime light, it simply becomes a trade off. You get what you want - the "lifestyle." He gets what he thinks he wants - trophy on his arm and the security of having someone at la casa; who wants to eat take out every night?
Cheating is an accepted practice in there environment. I know this because I have experienced it first hand. How long do you think you can hold these guy's attention? A month? A few years? Here's the thing, it doesn't matter how pretty you are or how good you give head. Why? - because there is always someone out there who is prettier and can make love better than you. You are in a losing war, constantly competing with the groupies. You find yourself peering around every corner to see if she's coming and believe me she is coming - your worse nightmare that young woman who was once you. She is willing to do anything anywhere.

It's funny how some women think that they are getting a free ride, but the truth of the matter is you get nothing for free in this world, everything comes at a price, with those inconvenient strings attached. This is not what you signed up for right? If history teaches us anything it teaches us that it repeats it's self and there is a very long line of Tigers and their naive mates.

Fact ladies, if a man wants you to sign a prenuptial agreement what he is saying is - I DON'T TRUST YOU AND I CERTAINLY DO NOT TRUST MYSELF! He does not expect it to last, and he knows that chances are it will end in a divorce. Here's a secret and some friendly advice from a former dog, notorious womanizer, liar... You name it, I have probably done it and believe me I ran with the best of the pack. Men are stupid but most men can see you coming from a mile away, if you want a man because of his status and or wealth, and you manage to become the "girlfriend" or maybe you will achieve the big prize and become the "wife," just remember this, you may think you are "the one", but there is a strong possibility that you are merely "number one." Meaning you are holding the number one spot, but keep in mind there is a number two, three and maybe even a four. If you are willing to except this and play your roll you will be a lot happier, if not you will find your self swinging a golf club at 3am trying to figure out how this happened. Bottom line is don't be naive to the facts that are staring you right in your face. If you choose to play with tigers and he bits you, can you really blame the tiger? Or, is the tiger just doing what is in his nature?

Josh

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